Today a friend reminded me that I need to pick up on my blogging again and thanks to her, am writing one after a while. I realized that like many people around, the sudden crisis that has embarked upon the world has left me with a myriad of emotions ranging from being blank, trying to grasp what the hell is happening, and how this now will affect tomorrow for next few weeks, months or even a couple of years! while doing this the range of emotions are swinging from being positive, grateful, content to being angry, confused, uninspired, bored or frustrated to name a few. This is when I realize that it is not the uncertainty of the situation that is unnerving, more so, it is the contrast emotional roller coaster that is becoming tough to handle. Just when I feel am having a good day, done my bit of exercise, meditation, been grateful for all that I have...….a phone call of a few minutes about how grim the situation is, or reading an article or watching news of people being in pain and misery around the world, loved ones losing their family and friends to the disease, people losing their jobs, livelihood can shatter that aura of peace and fill one with fear, negativity and a sense of hopelessness as well as helplessness!
So what is the alternate then? stop watching news, talking to people, discussing and create an illusionary reality where everything is hunky dory? No, that would mean living in denial. The alternate is really about two important things! One, while you focus on physical fitness and diet, pay equal attention to make yourself stronger mentally and emotionally! I am no expert on art and science of it, however, find what works for you - meditation, yoga, pranayama, reading a book, gardening, cooking, listening to music or whatever else that soothes you and makes you happy! Do it!
The other important lesson this crisis has thought us is how important it is to have a support system around. Not just physical or financial but mental and emotional as well and honestly, it does not matter if this support system is your family or not! Find it in your friends, neighbors, colleagues, pets, room mates, fellow students, does not matter!!!! There will be days even during this lockdown where you will feel happy, positive, cheerful about life, yourself and future and there will be those days when you feel f**cked about you and everything and everyone else! It is normal! so first, we need to accept this and not be hard upon yourself and wonder if you have lost it. We will keep losing it often in these times! when that happens do one of what I have mentioned above - using your own strength pull yourself out of that mode or if it seems too tough seek your support system to do it for you!
This is unlike any personal setback that any of us have gone through in our lifetime! This is a collective setback as humanity and that is why it is normal to feel overwhelmed! Pat yourself as each of us are doing the best we can in these times for ourselves as well as for the world!
So what is the alternate then? stop watching news, talking to people, discussing and create an illusionary reality where everything is hunky dory? No, that would mean living in denial. The alternate is really about two important things! One, while you focus on physical fitness and diet, pay equal attention to make yourself stronger mentally and emotionally! I am no expert on art and science of it, however, find what works for you - meditation, yoga, pranayama, reading a book, gardening, cooking, listening to music or whatever else that soothes you and makes you happy! Do it!
The other important lesson this crisis has thought us is how important it is to have a support system around. Not just physical or financial but mental and emotional as well and honestly, it does not matter if this support system is your family or not! Find it in your friends, neighbors, colleagues, pets, room mates, fellow students, does not matter!!!! There will be days even during this lockdown where you will feel happy, positive, cheerful about life, yourself and future and there will be those days when you feel f**cked about you and everything and everyone else! It is normal! so first, we need to accept this and not be hard upon yourself and wonder if you have lost it. We will keep losing it often in these times! when that happens do one of what I have mentioned above - using your own strength pull yourself out of that mode or if it seems too tough seek your support system to do it for you!
This is unlike any personal setback that any of us have gone through in our lifetime! This is a collective setback as humanity and that is why it is normal to feel overwhelmed! Pat yourself as each of us are doing the best we can in these times for ourselves as well as for the world!